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1499: wilm

Today is my Sunday. This was the first full weekend I spent in North Carolina where everything wasn’t torn up and crazy and all. Basically, this was my first normal weekend since Dec. 2.

This is how I spent it.

I was up late Monday night talking to Renée because we talk at night due to our work schedules and, if not for falling asleep next to her for a few days since November and back in 2002, I would swear that she doesn’t sleep. Regardless, I set my alarm to 8:45 because, if you’ve actually been reading this, I only spend about one weekend a month in my room/bed. I don’t care how long or tiring my work week is. My weekends are for me and for them being for me, that means not rolling about in bed all day. I can’t do that, especially now. My work week is get up almost too late to do anything constructive, go to work and try to find something to talk to Renée about when I get home although my entire day can be summed up as “I woke up and designed pages.”

Back in Richmond, I would spend the week in Hopewell, go home, cook dinner, watch the Science Channel or Jersey Shore and then go to bed after talking to Renée. At least, back then, I could share a story about Hopewell or something that frustrated me at work. Nowadays, it’s just a job where I can have some degree of creativity and turn work off when I go home.

Either way, I need my weekend and I need my weekend to be spectacular.

So I puttered around for a bit because I was exhausted and then JD, Jamee and I went to North Topsail Beach, one of the closest beaches to our house, for a few hours. It was 70 Tuesday.

North Topsail Beach

It was cloudy when we got there.

North Topsail Beach in mostly sunny 70-degree weather in January.

Then the day looked awesome.

YOU ARE SO JEALOUS OF MY LIFE.

Really, really awesome.

At one point, on Facebook, I thanked my former publisher for all that happened because I now live near an oceanfront paradise where it’s 70 degrees in January, I have low-stress work to do and JUST LOOK AT THIS. THIS WAS TOTALLY WORTH STICKING IT OUT IN THE TRI-CITIES UNTIL IT CHEWED ME UP AND SPIT ME OUT.  I’M THE LUCKIEST SPIT IN THE WORLD.

After that, I finished organizing my room. I have a place for my CDs, my two framed pieces of artwork are up (I still need a frame for a third but I’ve been saying that for an entire year) and everything is where it’s supposed to be. All I need to do is get a real mattress in the next couple weeks. I’ve been stalling on that because I’m owed some money and I want that first. This cot is fine since it’ll be a little while before Renée comes to visit. I’m content with my four walls for now.

Today, I went to Wilmington. I love that city. I’ve said here a few times before that I want to live there. I still want to live there. I plan on going to visit it a lot now that it’s so close. It would be nice if I could go with someone but there is about 10 hours of road between me and my girlfriend and two between me and my nearest friend. And, if it comes to seeing Joseph, I’ll just go to Chapel Hill.

I stayed in Wilmington until sunset. I capped that trip off with taking a photo of said sunset from Wrightsville Beach and snapping a shot of the Shell Island.

Cords? Check. Blazer? Check. Unsigned band T-Shirt? Check. Wayfarer frames? Check. Hat? Check.

I dressed like a hipster today.

The Cape Fear River

The Cape Fear River from an overpriced parking garage that shall never see my car again.

Wilmington Post Office

It looks like a larger, less curvy version of the Petersburg Post Office.

Riverwalk

This boat has cruises up and down the Cape Fear River. I think I shall take Renée on one.

I WANT TO HEAR THIS.

Hopefully, despite having that previous weekend off, I still have a "normal' weekend to see this.

I'm sure he was entertained.

George Washington: Define "entertained."

SPANISH MOSS

There is some spanish moss in Jacksonville but I think Wilmington is the true upper limit. It allegedly grows as far north as southside Hampton Roads but I've never seen it.

The Shell Island Hotel, Wrightsville Beach, N.C.

The first time I stayed in this hotel just east of Wilmington, I was in Room 803. The next time, when it's the off season, I want that room again.

Pretty!

Sunset over Wilmington from the southern tip of Wrightsville Beach

It’s back to the grind tomorrow. I’m thinking about a Richmond trip next “weekend” but that depends on Shaunelle’s work schedule. If I stay in North Carolina, I’ll probably bug Joseph after work, hang out at the beach again or start haunting the Cape Fear Museum. I meant to go there today but then I didn’t. I even walked up to it. I guess that and other things will give me an excuse to go back.

If anything, these past two days have shown me that I can’t live too far away from the coast. This salt water is in my blood. Although Raleigh/Durham and D.C. are options in 2014 after I put a ring on it later this year (it’s not a surprise proposal — it’s more of a matter of me wanting to meet her father first), I want to live in Wilmington and be near this.

If we didn’t finally realize that we don’t like Hampton Roads anymore, we’d just head back. My mom’s house is going to be legally mine in less than 10 years and there will be at least one newspaper down there still that has a copy desk in Hampton Roads.

But, I like it here. I’ve liked it here ever since I randomly picked Wilmington as my spring break trip in 2005. It’s like the opposite of how I wound up in the Tri-Cities (picked it because I had never seen that part of the state).

Yet again, it seems like my life is leading up to something. At least, this time, I’m going to take someone with me. It feels good to say that. I’m not slighting you readers, of course. Since 2004, I’ve always considered y’all as a part of the ride. I’m just looking forward to how this adventure builds up to Renée officially joining the quest for me to live up to the nickname I gained when I moved to Richmond that wound up on a T-shirt in my closet

If you don't know, ask me, in person, what's on the front.

If you don't know what's on the front, ask me in person, preferably when I'm near a computer.

1498: thin ice

If you read this directly from exit265c.com, you see the anti-SOPA/PIPA banner in the right hand corner. When I was the editor of a newspaper, I would have written an editorial on it and explained why I was against the acts. Now that I’m a worker bee, I almost feel that this is inappropriate but I see it as a nonpartisan cause to get behind. I don’t know or care what our corporate thinks and it’s not going down until either they cancel the vote or take a vote. The wording of the bill needs to be refined, plain and simple. Copyrights need to be preserved in this digital world but this is the wrong way.

If this passes,  the far extreme of it would be that I couldn’t post things like this song just to say that it’s the most beautiful song I’ve ever heard and that, if you agree, I suggest that you buy Pasión by the Eroica Trio.

Pirating is bad but so is this bill.

Anyway, listen to Oblivion. It’s the most beautiful song I’ve ever heard and I wanted to share.

1497: training wheels off

I did the entire local section myself today. It was my first time. I almost freaked but then I remembered that I have been a journalist for nearly six years, I have been doing pages for two years and I’ve studied design for many fives of years. (Fact: I sketched out a newspaper with a friend in fifth grade.)

It’s my Friday night. I’ll have weekend duty for a while, especially since I’m the newest, for a months. I was told that they’ll work around any obligations I have on weekends, which is good. I have at least one wedding, a double date, a road trip and my birthday between now and August let alone trips to visit Renée in our compromise city of D.C.

New York City is about 10 hours from Jacksonville. I drove for a total of 26 hours this weekend. I finished the last stretch directly before going to work because, at about 11 p.m., something told me to stop driving and go to my mom’s house. It’ll take us around the same amount of time to get to Washington and, when the time comes, it is our first choice for home.

I have a bed now. Sorta. My mom bought me a cot. I can’t afford to buy a mattress until the end of next week because I had expected three unemployment checks but I got two. I also find it amazing that I left Hopewell literally two weeks before they owed me two weeks of vacation. I’m sure they had that planned. I would have fought it but I literally moved on to bigger and better things. This month is just going to be awkward and everything will be fine by Feb. 1. It just sucks because it’s only Jan. 18 right now. But I’ll be fine. I’ve been through worse. There was a point in 2006 when I only ate once a day and made three pounds of chicken stretch about a week because my beat was a 504-square-mile county when gas skyrocketed the first time, I was only getting paid 24 cents a mile, I had just started car payments, I lost my savings from having to chip in over $400 for the fuel bill at my fraternity house and from not having a job for three months and having no concept of unemployment at that time.

I’m not bragging but I’ve had it rough before and I got through it. This is nothing. This is why I don’t freak out about problems anymore. It freaked Katy out that I wasn’t freaked out when I suddenly didn’t have a job in December. Two people at work today apologized for things that were going on and it took a lot to not explain how their issues were nothing compared to what I have seen beyond saying that I’ve been through worse. I would say that I’m just lucky that everything has worked out so far but it’s not luck. It’s to the point where it seems like I’m being pointed toward something. I don’t believe in that destiny crap beyond figures of speech but let’s see: If I wound up at the Daily Press like I had hoped, I probably would have been caught up in that Tribune bloodbath by now or would be worked like a government mule right now. The publication I shot for that the Virginian-Pilot owned folded. Media General has had some issues. I left just before layoffs started at the Progress-Index and there was a point where it was costing me more money to go to work in Dinwiddie than what I was making. Deep down, I’ll always resent how things went down in Hopewell but I’ll be vindicated and I have something extremely nice to put on my résumé now called a local family of daily papers with a sizable circulation. The next step is either me swelling with pride and screwing myself or leaving things at this extremely long paragraph and moving forward.

It’s just tempting. I want to brag and I feel bad about the little things I’ve said up until this point. I regret the previous two paragraphs but I had to get something out. Although this blog doesn’t have the widest viewership, I hate how the Internet has taken off. I can’t vent here with reckless abandon like I could 1400 entries ago. I may have to go back to scribbling things in notebooks and destroying them later. (Fact: I’ve destroyed all traces of my first novel and I still don’t know what to do with the second. The one I talk about now is my third.)

Next Thursday marks my first new normal work schedule. In about a month, I’m being switched to another daily newspaper (currently, I’m paginating and editing the largest daily). The new one has an earlier deadline so my schedule would be somewhere around 2 p.m. to 10 p.m. instead of my current 3 to 11. I won’t know for certain until we get to that point. My weekends may shift again at that point. I was told Tuesday-Saturday when I was offered the job and, next week it’s Thursday-Monday. I don’t mind because my second nearest close friend has odd rotating schedules and, much like many of the Marines here, I’m a geographic bachelor. This means that, this weekend, I get shown a Sunday paper. I’m slightly freaking out about that because I’ve never had to paginate a definite bread and butter edition. Although the new Hopewell publisher didn’t want it that way, as far as content and extras, as far as the newsroom was concerned, our Thursday edition had to be our biggest in the T-Th-Sa publishing schedule. It wasn’t marketed as such. Now that I’m back in the dailies, I have to think about presenting the crowning edition of the week. For a paper the next paper size down from the current broadsheet. Although it probably will happen, I hope all dailies don’t go down to this size. It’s OK but the more oblong paper size allows for more creativity. I have my fake double truck as my desktop background at work to remind myself of what is possible with more real estate. But I look at it this way: along with being well versed in two types of pagination software, I also can say I know how to lay out a sexy page in two different sizes. I’m wandering into bragging again. Stop it.

I had a reason for this entry about three hours ago but I had to stop and I felt obligated to make a post anyway since the last one was on the 12th and I’ve really slacked off in updating in the past year or so. I’m just going to end it now where it’s all good and awkward and I’ll also choose to not tag this at all so it can eventually disappear like so many of the initial entries.

The only problem with that is, since my frequency has gone down so much, this will be on page 1 until at least Feb. 20.

1496

So far, so good. Because of my trip to New York this weekend that was scheduled well before this rigmarole started, Monday/Tuesday seems like the day I will get my bed unless I can get same-day delivery before 2 p.m. Thursday, which I doubt. I was going to go the used mattress route but most people have jobs that run for normal hours so I wouldn’t be able to get one until the weekends, which would leave me sleeping on couch cushions for up to seven more days (I think my work schedule will be what it’s going to be starting Monday. I think I actually don’t have any of the traditional weekend days off at all since I’m the new guy so I may be MIA longer than I thought I would.

Other than the bed, almost everything in the room is where I want it. I just need to build a case for my CDs (I never finished uploading everything and I think my external hard drive is in Richmond and it’s possibly stolen). and put my books on the shelves. I haven’t put the books up yet because I’m suing them to mark out where the bed would be and stop the couch cushions I’m sleeping on now from sliding. I’m pretty much stopped moving in my sleep but I had gotten used to a queen bed and those first couple nights were an adventure. I haven’t put a lot of things up because I’ll be out of here in a few months. There haven’t been any problems and I think we’ll be friends but it feels a little awkward to have a complete opposite sleep schedule from everyone else in such as small house.

I go to bed between 2 a.m. and 4 a.m. so I’m as refreshed as possible for work but I typically spend those overnight hours afraid to breathe too hard. I’m probably overreacting but I’d rather overreact than be that asshole banging things around at 3 a.m. They mentioned being afraid of waking me up in the morning as well but I lived in a frat house so, once I’m out, I tend to be out. The weirdest things wake me up but, typically, something going on in an adjacent room does noting for me, with the exception of when I had the ill fortune in Petersburg of having my bed directly opposite the bed of the other apartment where they did nothing but argue and have loud sex for a good portion of every night. I would up sleeping in my living room. I’m doing some preliminary looking around at places now. I found some that I like toward Wilmington but I’m not up for commuting 20+ miles to work again. It’ll work out; this feels like a combination of my move to Petersburg and my first six months in Richmond right now. It’s a little freaky that way.

I got good news out of the Virginia today. Once again, I can’t and won’t explain what’s going on but Katy was out of a job too. She is now at the one job I ever truly ranted about online. I didn’t hate the place. I was mostly annoyed at one person. Back when overtures were made last year, I told her that it was nothing but a clash of personalities and she should go for it when the opportunity arose. I actually went out of my way to not talk about my time there with her before that point because I didn’t want her to think it was an awful place because it’s not. If anything, everything went as it should. If I was 100 percent content, I probably would be there still, hating that, six years later, I was still writing articles. Being annoyed and leaving there allowed me to spend almost three years practicing layout and design in Hopewell which allowed me to move on to a daily copy desk since, between the time I started college and finished, copy editors and paginators became one and the same. I would have been stuck as a reporter because I never would have had the opportunity to learn how to design pages. At the end of the day, I’m glad I left both places in Virginia when I did because I left with good information and an impressive résumé: over three years of daily experience, writing experience, nunchuku skills, bow hunting skills, computer hacking skills, photography experience, social media experience, three years of managerial experience and experience in InDesign and Quark. I want to hire me.

But I digress.

Anyway, she’ll be fine there. I still have some connections if she’s ever in a bind, she already knows some people and she has at least one loyal friend in that newsroom.

And I’ll get to live vicariously through her. I’ll probably end up pitching story ideas to her just to get updated on people I miss. I just have this soft-edged, sepia view of Dinwiddie County. I still miss it. I don’t think I’ll ever stop. I wasn’t completely joking when I told someone I would be content in my old age to have a house on a couple acres there. It’s probably the country boy in me. I’m only one generation removed from the farm. I have no idea how to farm but I tell you, if I get my own grain to sway gently in the wind, I’d be the proudest man in Dinwiddie.

Oh God. This is going to be my midlife crisis, isn’t it? Why can’t I have a soft-edged, sepia view of me in a sports car?

1495

I can’t sleep. It’s probably because I had not only a chai earlier today but a giganto sweet tea at about 11. I’ve been drinking nothing but water, ginger ale and, with the exception of the past five days, alcohol since maybe the end of November when I had a Mountain Dew on one of the layout days in Hopewell. On the bright side, if I wake up at noon, I still have over two hours to get to work. This may help me anyway since I’m going to Chapel Hill or Richmond tomorrow night after work. I’d get to Richmond at about 2:30. I’d get to Chapel Hill around 1. I’m getting the rest of my things Saturday and I’ll have a new bed by the 30th. My goal is to have a bed by the 16th. My work schedule and needing to go to New York next weekend makes getting a bed next week a little awkward. This whole move has been awkward. You would think, with me having nearly an entire month to prepare for this, I would have been more organized. But when was the last time I did anything the easy way? You know most of those gaps in time in my blog posts? Those are usually because I spent a day like a normal human being.

But I digress.

I’ve learned some more things about what’s going on in Hopewell and I’ve seen the website and Facebook page. To say that I feel disappointed is an understatement. I think, in October or so, I want to give the publisher a call. I doubt he’ll take it but I want to try anyway. It’ll be a cordial call. I just have a feeling about October and I want to ask him a question then. I know it’s odd for me to say this in January but trust me with this one.

Anyway, I was almost finally off to sleep when this popped in my head. Depending on how much privy you had to this blog in its early stages, you may have seen the original ending to my novel, which I hope to enter into Amazon’s publishing contest later this month. I’m finally at a point in my career when I don’t have to think about work until it’s time to go back to work. I haven’t been able to do that in nearly six years.

It’s a little weird how some things in that novel’s plot paralleled things in the last three years, especially since it was a partial commentary on the two years before that. It’s got weirder after I officially declared it finished before something happened in November.

I based my farewell column in the Hopewell paper a little on Lorenzo’s farewell column, which will not appear in the finished novel. To quote what I wrote as him writing on another character,

It was his story that inspired me. I love to write. I love thinking that my words one day shall appear on something other than newsprint. Despite this, I was, in a way, content with dreaming about passing one of my own books in Barnes & Noble without doing anything to make it happen.

I talked to Katy yesterday. She said it was very brave of me to leave behind everything I know and love in Virginia to come to Jacksonville. I never looked at it that way. She’s right. Even given the circumstances, she’s right.

Lorenzo makes a similar leap. He knew a couple of people where he was going but there was no telling how long they’d be there. He called the change a step toward what he hopes is fulfilling his destiny. He also alluded that he was sure it was because it was planned to be a temporary stop on the way to what he is to do. Taking that one step forward is the biggest and toughest. After that, it’s all gravy. But

You’ll never know if you can do it if you don’t take the risk.

… [A]lthough they may look it, barricades are not permanent. If you beat a wall long enough, it will fall.

Break down your walls.

Goodnight.

1494: first full day

I wasn’t set up for the computer network at work today so I got to go home early. On a normal day, I’ll be there till 10:30 or 11. I think my work day is Tuesday-Saturday. I’ll know for certain when the full staff is in. Today was their New Year’s.  The first order of business is telling the HR person that I cannot work the weekend of the 15th because I already promised about three people that I would be in New York and New Jersey. In theory, I’ll be in New York City by 8:30 p.m. that day. I’m still not sure if I’ll leave my car in Newark or the Bronx. Given the stereotype of both localities, they both sound like equally bad ideas. I’ve left my car in both cities and it has been fine except for that one time in Newark outside of a secured parking area. And I have only parked my car on Riverside Drive in Washington Heights. Don’t worry; Nicole will be fine.

Anyway, I should be at work right now but, instead, I have more or less finished setting up my room. I’ve marked out where my bed will be and my dresser. I’m hoping I can also squeeze in my mini bookcase in that same area so I can but my clothes baskets in a less prominent place.

This room is larger than my old room in Richmond but the closet is smaller. Additionally, it’s missing the upper shelf to the closet so I need to dig up my measuring tape and head to a lumber store next week. When everything is where it should be by like next Wednesday, I’ll take pictures. What you’ll note missing will be my second plant, Phillis. She’s fragile and is to the point where she can’t fit in my car. I’ve passed her on to Shaunelle. I still have Cecil, of course. Why would I not? I only got him the same month I started this blog in 2004.

I haven’t exactly been social with my roommates yet because my first priority is putting my room together because it would drive me crazy otherwise. I’m serious. If I weren’t five seconds away from keeling over yesterday, I probably would have been putting stuff together till 3 a.m. I slept for about 12 hours and I’m still a little sleepy. I’m going to force myself to stay awake till at least 1 a.m. so I don’t completely ruin my sleep schedule. I used to say that the perfect day lasts from 10 a.m. to 2 a.m. I’ll get to put that into practice.

It will be a more perfect day when I have my frickin’ bed. I just priced renting a van. It will cost $200, not including gas. I really need to find someone with a van or a truck in Richmond. I’ll pay for gas. $60-$80 for gas is better than frickin’ nearly $300. That settles it. My next car is a quad cab truck. I may just have to see if my friend with an SUV can drive up and get my dresser and odds and ends and then try to catch a mattress set on sale some weekend or early day. I’ll have until Renée visits in February to get the bed. I now see how mattress stores stay in business: it’s nearly impossible to move one more than a few miles from a mattress store. Eh. I made an impromptu bed earlier today. It’s not so bad. I can manage for a bit. I just need to get all my stuff out of Richmond this weekend. This is exactly why I had hoped to stay in Richmond a while longer. Ugh. I’ll think this through further tomorrow morning. I don’t even want to think about this anymore. Or whine about it anymore.

Anyway, this whole thing was an excuse not to put my books back on the shelves because I’m still tired but I felt I need to do something semi-constructive to justify not doing it till tomorrow.

Remind me not to move to another state or more than 150 miles any time soon.

Home for a while.

I’m in my new place. This will be home for six months or so.

My bed is still in Virginia and will be until next weekend. I hope the floor is comfy. I’ll either need to rent a truck or find someone else with a van.

The dog and cat are inspecting my room. The cat is actually eating some of Cecil’s leaves. I’ll have to remember to keep my door closed.

My first day at work is tomorrow at 2 p.m.

I still have  some stuff in my trunk. It can wait till morning. Next weekend, I need my bed, dresser, my cups and things and that’s about it. I’m impressed that nearly everything I own fits in my car.

I think I’ll be OK here. It’s time for a new adventure.

1492: post of the year

I have a lot to do in the next 48 hours in relation to moving. This is all compounded by the mysterious case of the missing direct deposit that I need resolved by Saturday, not Monday, because I’m going to be busy preparing for work Monday and I don’t need 20 minutes of being on hold on top of that. Never mind that my work day starts at 2 p.m. That said, this is the last post from Richmond and Virginia for a while. Since it’s the end of the year almost, it’s time for the Post of the Year.

Unlike last year, when there was an unprecedented one candidate, this year had two. I blame both small pools on the state of my life in 2010 and 2011. It takes me about nine months to go through 100 entries nowadays. It used to take six months. It used to take four months. It took me two months to reach 100 back in 2004.

Anyway, 2012 will be the start of a grand new adventure and I’m looking forward to a somewhat open secret that will be accomplished about a year from now. It’s going to be great and I haven’t had a great lighthearted Post of the Year since 2008 so I’m going with the silly this year with this.

That’s Brisk, baby.

Happy New Year.

I’ll see you in 2012 in North Carolina.

1491

Brief update:

I enjoyed every second I spent with Renée over the last few days. My love for her has returned and has surpassed how I felt freshman year. WE have plans for the summer. In June, we’re spending my birthday in Wrightsville Beach, N.C. The hotel I want to stay in is a little pricey in the summer but I think/hope I’ll be able to swing it or one of the other ones on the island. I mean, on paper, I get paid $2 more an hour in North Carolina, my rent is slightly cheaper, I have a shorter commute and the cost of living is lower. If I can’t cough up $200-odd dollars for a hotel room six months hence, I’m doing something wrong. The worse-case scenario is that we stay in Wilmington itself.

I have begun packing. I got the biggest part out of the way: My hundreds of pounds of books. My goal for later today is to bag up my CDs. That will just leave odds and ends, clothes and my bed.

I just got a call for an interview in Richmond for Friday. I’m certain it is something I could have. I would still be reporting, which is what I don’t want to do anymore. I would have loved to stay in Richmond but it is too late.

I move on New Year’s Day. That is awful. My first day is Jan. 2 at 2 p.m. The copy desk chief is on vacation that week but I’m supposed to be just observing and learning where things are the first week anyway. I’ll sorta update on how that goes but I’m going to continue my rule of very rarely talking about work here. This blog is to talk about my life, not to go into great detail about the ins and out of editing newspapers.

That’s pretty much it for now. I’ve said a lot of my goodbyes and now it’s just a matter of packing it all up. I’ll miss Richmond but at least I’ll have this experience forever in my heart.

1490: j-ville

I had planned to be in bed right now but , long story short, my sheets aren’t dry so I need to wait for them.

I headed out to Jacksonville on Monday to fill out paperwork for work, set my start date and look at housing.

I was handed a giant stack of paperwork to read and sign. I read and signed it all when I got back Monday night. Although I have never worked at a place that made me fill out so much stuff, I feel good about it because a lot of it was for things I should have had to read and sign at the two other places I worked. Renée wants to live in a real city eventually so, to do so and stay in the company, I have to hope I get called up to the big leagues in SoCal in the next two years or not long after. I wouldn’t mind one of the two dailies in the Florida Panhandle when the time comes but that’s just my inner Southerner/coast dweller talking. There’s also one in a biggish border town in Texas that has a paper they own but, overall, if she wants a city, I can’t stay in Jacksonville like 10 years or anything unless Capital One or something relocates there and the population jumps up higher than Raleigh overnight. Everyone cross your fingers and hope this leads to California if I stay in the company so she’s happy.

But I digress. I’m still in Richmond and I’m talking about what I plan on doing/living some time after 2014. I guess it’s because, for really and truly the first time, I need to factor in someone else’s life in my decisions on where I’m working and what I’m doing. This may be my final drop everything and move to a random city.

I think I have Raleigh misspelled in my phone’s dictionary, which is ridiculous since I live near and drive on Richmond’s Leigh Street almost every day and haven’t spelt that wrong. *checks phone* No. I just didn’t have the frickin’ capital of a state in a metro area of over 1.7 million people.

Whatever.

As I was saying six hours ago, I went to Jacksonville Monday. I was proud of myself because it was the second and it confirmed that I get there half an hour faster than what Google Maps says it will take. Given what I think my work schedule is (I should call tomorrow to double check), I probably can’t run down to an event on a Friday or Saturday night but, if it’s 5 p.m., telling someone I’ll be there around 8:30 is a huge difference over saying sometime after 9.

I have no idea which desk is mine or anything like that. I guess that’s something for the first day. I just don’t want to slow the process down but it’s a unified copy desk for three daily papers so I’m assuming getting me situated isn’t going to mess up the flow that much. I’m going to be slow for a few days or weeks anyway since I’ll be switching from Quark 6 (they’re at Quark 9 right now, by the way) to InDesign. I have it on LSW4 but that piece of crap is far too much of a hassle. I’ll probably get myself an InDesign book for Christmas. I need to ask them which one they have tomorrow as well.

I hope you realize that the first third of this entry is me thinking out loud in blog form. Then again, if you’ve been reading this since June 2004, you definitely know that’s the case for almost every entry.

The newspaper building is for the most part an open space like the newsroom in Petersburg. There are cubicle walls to delineate sections and, from where I think I’ll be sitting, it will be easy to forget that you’re adjacent to the lobby. I hope to forget because it will be a rarity that someone comes to the lobby and asks for me. I think that’s the one thing I’m most excited about: the era of my phone ringing, email dinging and people walking in is over. I can come in and focus on what I’m there for. That hasn’t happened since copy editing for my college paper.

After leaving the paper, I met my future roommates. I was going to look at a couple places but I was sold on JD and Jamee. I wish I were more vocal but I had been awake for about 20 hours when I met them. They gave me the address and I checked out our future place. From the outside, it ranks just above where I lived in Hopewell. I liked that Hopewell house but I didn’t love it. For me to love a house, it’s going to have to look like this one in Chimborazo and that’s a tall order because we’re grossly underpaying for these digs. That’s going to be what I get when I have whatever Renée and I save up plus whatever I get for selling my mom’s house in less than 10 years.

The house, which I’ll call Bayshore for short due to that being the name of that part of town, is about five minutes from work if Lejeune Boulevard isn’t a bear. All I’d need to do is get into the left lane as soon as I turn onto it and pray I can get through a couple traffic lights before Camp Lejeune traffic locks it up. Given my work schedule in the way I understand it, this might not be a problem. Also, this way is 2.5 miles. There’s a back way that’s 3 miles. We’ll see if it’s worth the extra gallon of gas every three months. Either way, my shortest commute ever was the two miles from my first apartment to the Petersburg paper that took four minutes and some change if I caught every light and this is a pretty close second. It’s a first if you include it not requiring me to drive to Dinwiddie or Prince George after such a short commute to work.

The plan is to stay at Bayshore for at least six months. I think I’m going to stay there till at least this time next year. I’d rather have my own place at some point and they’re getting married in April so yeah. It shouldn’t be awkward but, if I have a roommate when I get married, I’d be wondering when he would go find his own place. Or I’d tell everyone to try to freak out the neighbors. But that’s just me.

Other than that, I think everything will be fine minus one little thing: The nearest Wawa is in Virginia.

How am I to satisfy my random macaroni and cheese fixes? By not having the urge because I should be as stressed as I was in the Tri-Cities where I medicated myself with cheesy, carbohydrate goodness? I hope so. I hope so.

Then again, I’m moving to what I consider the first fully southern state below the Mason-Dixon line so, if I can’t find good mac and cheese in Jacksonville, something is wrong with the universe.

In all, it will be OK. I know it will. Much like how I knew everything was going to be fine when I left Hopewell technically without a job Dec. 7, I know everything will be fine in Jacksonville. I’m back at a daily. At this time next year, I can say I have nearly four years of daily experience, three years of managerial experience and four years of copy editing and page design outside of my internships. As long as I keep tweeting, taking photos and blogging, I definitely can go wherever Renée wants to go when it’s time for us to live together. On top of that, I should have Brown River Blues published and at least have a draft of The Collectors done at that point, especially since I’m entering Amazon’s winner-gets-a-publishing-deal contest in January.

if all goes according to plan in 2012, it will be a year I look back on fondly and that’s before getting my book published. It’s almost showtime.

This entry has taken about an hour. My sheets are finally dry.

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